Hi I'm Jane Terdik

I have done a lot of changing in the past 5 years of my life. It became obvious to me that I had to make some changes if there was any hope of finding happiness in life. So in a nutshell, everything in my life became new. I left a long abusive marriage, which forced me to leave the family home with my teenage children and the successful home-based business I had operated for over 15 years. I was 40 years old, single and living on my own for the first time in my life, and starting over with nothing. I was lost and scared. I set about to put myself and my life together and move forward. I’m a work-in-progress and I’m loving it…here’s what I’ve learned…

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Are you stuck? Tired of the same old routine? Have you spent years with a restless feeling that there is more? Are you drowning in a haze of confusion, numbness, uncertainty, fear or just plain lost?

There is hope...there is more...it's time for a change!!

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Transformation Tuesday

We have a way of just going with our lives that causes us to become complacent and settle for the current flow we are in. There is a fine line between acceptance of the life we have and working towards what we WANT. Too much or too little of either way of thinking creates resistance…
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Transformation Tuesday

JANEtalks on trust…that one little word that causes us so much distress. We put a lot of stock in trust but I think we often forget that it is a choice that is based on our intuition. Trust isn’t based on a feeling and it isn’t required. It is a freely given choice based on…
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Transformation Tuesday

Taking a good hard look at yourself…without all of the expectations, responsibilities, obligations and duties of life is a START!!! Only a start. The next step is being realistic about it all…again without all of the added voices telling you what to do and drowning out your own thoughts. It’s harder to do than you…
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Transformation Tuesday

Sometimes we get so caught up focusing on our mistakes that we forget that it isn’t the mistakes that define us…it’s how we handle them. I was stuck for so long in regret for how the life we lived affected my children that I couldn’t move forward. I had to forgive myself. The past happened…
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Transformation Tuesday

JANEtalks on being okay. And not just being okay but really believing that you are, knowing deep down inside that you are. I’ve spent a lot of time over the years trying to convince myself that I am okay but not really believing it. Now don’t get me wrong, you have to start somewhere. It…
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Transformation Tuesday

I had the biggest eye-opener when FACS was called to investigate my family by the school. Who would have ever thought it would happen to ME??? Wasn’t I doing everything I could? Wasn’t I an involved and loving mother? Wasn’t I “doing everything right? Everything I was supposed to?” Answer: NO I wasn’t!!! I was…
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Truth Talkin’ Thursday

Jim and I reflect on Father’s Day. Jim shares personal experiences he had with his own children. He shares his most memorable AHA moments and what he feels is most important for Dad’s to share with their children.
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Truth Talkin’ Thursday

Jim and I express our thoughts on the importance of going with the flow, not overthinking, and digging in to find solutions when things change unexpectedly. Even the most carefully laid plans can abruptly change. But there is ALWAYS a solutions to any dilemma you find yourself in.
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Truth Talkin’ Thursday

Jim and I speak freely about CHANGE. It is truly one of our greatest fears. We imagine all kinds of things about change and we sometimes do everything we can to avoid it…including staying in very unhappy and dangerous circumstances.
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Truth Talkin’ Thursday

Jim and I have a very honest conversation about pushing yourself too hard. Optimum health come from caring for yourself both physically and mentally and that means taking time DAILY to rest and relax…two very different things!!
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Truth Talkin’ Thursday

Jim and I talk about happiness. What is it? How do we know if we are happy? If we aren’t happy, why????
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Truth Talkin’ Thursday

Jim and I tackle the delicate topic of finances. I know everyone has their hang-ups and thoughts about saving and spending…but there are some basics and just make sense!!! Jim and I have both experienced financial hard times in our lives and we had to make some decisions to get ahead that wasn’t easy.
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