Hi I'm Jane Terdik

I have done a lot of changing in the past 5 years of my life. It became obvious to me that I had to make some changes if there was any hope of finding happiness in life. So in a nutshell, everything in my life became new. I left a long abusive marriage, which forced me to leave the family home with my teenage children and the successful home-based business I had operated for over 15 years. I was 40 years old, single and living on my own for the first time in my life, and starting over with nothing. I was lost and scared. I set about to put myself and my life together and move forward. I’m a work-in-progress and I’m loving it…here’s what I’ve learned…

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Are you stuck? Tired of the same old routine? Have you spent years with a restless feeling that there is more? Are you drowning in a haze of confusion, numbness, uncertainty, fear or just plain lost?

There is hope...there is more...it's time for a change!!

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Transformation Tuesday

I didn’t think of the difference between Giving Up and Surrendering until after it almost cost me my life. I’ve learned so much in the past 6 years…about life, expectations, and myself. Surrender is a beautiful experience.
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Transformation Tuesday

JANEtalks on “normal”. We are all normal…our own kind of normal. Normal isn’t a certain set of expectations or standards. It isn’t following a certain set of rules or steps. We all have different ideas of what normal is and what it should be…doesn’t mean our understanding is “right” and someone else’s is wrong. Normal…
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Transformation Tuesday

Sometimes I need to remind myself that just because I am not perfect, just because I don’t have everything “under control” in my life, and just because I am a work in progress…doesn’t make me less than!!! Life is a challenging series of ups and downs. It isn’t about how many times we are right…
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Transformation Tuesday

JANEtalks on calling myself on my own SH*T. Thinking for myself and taking the time to take a long hard look at my life realistically was the start of my transformation. A reality check provided the proof that I was playing the blame game and by doing so, I was holding myself back from every…
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Transformation Tuesday

We have a way of just going with our lives that causes us to become complacent and settle for the current flow we are in. There is a fine line between acceptance of the life we have and working towards what we WANT. Too much or too little of either way of thinking creates resistance…
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Transformation Tuesday

JANEtalks on trust…that one little word that causes us so much distress. We put a lot of stock in trust but I think we often forget that it is a choice that is based on our intuition. Trust isn’t based on a feeling and it isn’t required. It is a freely given choice based on…
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Truth Talkin’ Thursday

Jim and I speak freely about guilt. How much is too much? Is there such a thing as too much or too little guilt? Where does guilt come from? Is there a difference between remorse and guilt? Bottom line…just be you…cut the expectations, know yourself, make decisions, accept the consequences, live, laugh, love!
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Truth Talkin’ Thursday

Jim and I record on a ride today. We talk about the importance of being yourself, taking time to do things for you and for others. We talk about giving…not to receive anything but just to give! Life is too short to surround yourself with negativity. Be positive, find your niche, live your dash, and…
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Truth Talkin’ Thursday

At what point do you take a step back and say I’m done? When do you take the time to put yourself first? Or do you just skip that step? If you don’t take care of yourself first you aren’t handling your stuff and you certainly won’t be able to help someone else handle their…
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Truth Talkin’ Thursday

Jim and I reflect on Father’s Day. Jim shares personal experiences he had with his own children. He shares his most memorable AHA moments and what he feels is most important for Dad’s to share with their children.
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Truth Talkin’ Thursday

Jim and I express our thoughts on the importance of going with the flow, not overthinking, and digging in to find solutions when things change unexpectedly. Even the most carefully laid plans can abruptly change. But there is ALWAYS a solutions to any dilemma you find yourself in.
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Truth Talkin’ Thursday

Jim and I speak freely about CHANGE. It is truly one of our greatest fears. We imagine all kinds of things about change and we sometimes do everything we can to avoid it…including staying in very unhappy and dangerous circumstances.
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