Life happens…it isn’t defined in the destination but rather by the journey itself. The worst thing we can do is to focus on what has gone wrong or allow ourselves to be stuck in the negative thoughts that we have done something wrong. The best way to handle a situation that we aren’t too happy about is to first admit the reality of the situation. And second realize that we have a choice in how we handle it. And thirdly, begin to formulate and work a plan or plans to change our circumstances. Get tough with yourself and realize that you are worthy of a good life.